
458: The Myth of “Having It All” + The Playbook to Thriving as a CEO/Mama
from the bossbabe podcast
by Natalie Ellis
Published: Thu Apr 10 2025
Show Notes
We’ve all heard the phrase “you can have it all” — but is it actually serving us?
In this episode, Natalie challenges the myth of having it all and shares what it really looks like to thrive as a CEO and a mother — without burning out, running on empty, or constantly questioning if you're doing enough.
Whether you’re a parent or simply juggling a lot, you’ll walk away with a powerful reframe on success, a clear strategy for setting aligned priorities, and practical tools for protecting your time, energy, and well-being.
If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, this is the mindset shift you’ve been needing.
TIMESTAMPS
- Why the idea of “having it all” is keeping high-achieving women stuck
- The real question: Do you even want it all — and at what cost?
- How becoming a mom ended Natalie’s people-pleasing era (and why that changed everything)
- Recognizing the martyr pattern — and how to break free from it
- The truth behind thriving women: It starts with support systems
- Redefining “mom guilt” and how to shift into empowered ambition
- The 3-question framework to define your version of success
- The exact things Natalie let go of to reach her biggest goals
- How to prioritize like a CEO and protect your energy
- When to outsource, automate, or ask for help (and why it matters)
- Build a schedule that reflects your actual values — not just what looks impressive
- A challenge: What’s one thing you can release to make space for what matters?
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