Show Notes
If you've ever thought, "I know what I'm supposed to be doing with my money, so why can't I just do it?"–– this episode is going to change everything.
I'm sitting down with Dr. Nick, a licensed neuropsychologist and executive cognition specialist, to unpack the brain science behind why smart, capable women still make emotional financial decisions. We're going into the dopamine deficit that makes long-term financial goals feel impossible to start, the norepinephrine surge that only kicks in when things become an emergency, and why "I'm bad with money" is a story your brain makes up — not a fact about who you are.
Dr. Nick breaks down how emotional dysregulation silently drives impulse spending, financial avoidance, and the boom-bust cycle so many of us know too well, and more importantly, how to build systems, practice self-compassion, and rewire your brain's relationship with money, one small win at a time.
Dr. Nick’s links:
Website: https://www.drnicolemurray.com/
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In this episode:
How Emotional Decisions Shape Your Finances
Why Knowing Isn't Enough: The Brain Science
The Role of Dopamine in Financial Decisions
How to Create Urgency Before a Crisis
"I'm Just Bad With Money" — Debunked
What Is Emotional Regulation (And Why It Matters)
The Intensity Gauge: Rating Your Emotions
Managing the "Always at an 8" vs. Numb Baseline
Making Financial Decisions at a 5, 6, or 7
Replacing Mindless Spending With Systems
Willpower Is a Myth — Here's What Actually Works
The Case for Self-Compassion Over Willpower
The Boom-Bust Cycle of Financial Motivation
How Emotional Regulation Changes With Age
Preparing for Life's Transitions
Rebuilding Trust With Yourself and Your Money
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