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Simone Ashley: “Self-Belief Changed My Life”

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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July 29, 2026

Show Notes

Actress and musician Simone Ashley joins Jay for an intimate conversation about navigating sudden global fame, redefining self-worth beyond career expectations, and letting go of societal timelines. Simone details her breakthrough journey from lockdown uncertainties to leading Bridgerton, how her mother taught her to love her skin and embrace cultural identity, and why stepping into music with her debut EP 'Songs I Wrote In New York' allowed her to access a raw, instinctual form of creative expression.

Together, Jay and Simone dive into the crucial distinction between solitude and loneliness, how envy can slowly destroy friendships, and why finding a 'co-creator' in love means choosing someone who makes life simpler rather than more complex. If you're feeling behind in life or searching for the confidence to trust your own timing, this episode offers a heartwarming reminder that your path unfolds exactly when it is meant to.

With Love and Gratitude,Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

Intro 

How Much Can Shift In Five Years

From Lockdown to Bridgerton: Career Breakthrough

Identity and Confidence as an Indian Actress

Impact of Representation and Personal Reflections

Assessing Past Strengths and Potential Regrets

Comparing School Experiences 

Mother's Lesson on Non-Materialism 

Defining True Friendship and Overcoming Envy

Women Supporting Each Other Beyond Competition

Loneliness vs Solitude

Desires, Dreams, and Simpler Life Aspirations

How to Manifest Love…

The Power of Honesty in Relationships

This is What Handling Rejection Looks Like 

Your Emotional Response to Rejection is OK 

Balancing Career Ambition with Personal Relationships

Evolving Partner Values As You Grow

Self-Belief is the Foundation for Success

Dream Projects and Core Personal Values

Creation is the Opposite of Depression 

The Songwriting Process and Developing Her Unique Sound

Vulnerability in Music and Overcoming That Fear 

Analyzing 'Freeze' and 'Tragic Romantic' Lyrics

The Song 'Free' and Its Emotional Significance

Finding the Art Form That Perfectly Aligns with Your Soul  

Would-You-Rather Dating Game 

Aging, Timelines, and Comparing Life Paths

The Most Painful Lesson She Learned From This Rejection

What Are Sliding-Door Moments?

Don’t Feel Bad For Being Desperate

Questioning Answers and The Biggest Pressure in Her 30’s

Dreaming of An Escape and What That Really Means 

The Perspective Shift That Changed Everything 

Simone on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/simoneashley/ 

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@simoneashleyofficial 

Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/artist/simoneashley

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