
How a Shy, Lonely Software Engineer Learned to Flirt and Found his Dream Woman—and How You Can, Too!
from How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
by Connell Barrett
Published: Tue Oct 28 2025
Show Notes
If you struggle to talk to women or feel stuck in the friend zone, you need to hear Tony’s story. A shy, single dad and software engineer, Tony was dateless when he began working with Connell. By learning how to flirt with women and bring confidence to every date, Tony met his dream girlfriend, Jennifer. In this episode, he shares the exact shifts and flirting techniques that helped him succeed—so you can find love, too.
Episode Highlights:
:Why Tony Felt Women Didn’t Want Him
:The Self-Doubt Voice that Keeps Men Single—and How to Silence It
:Steal the “Time Traveler” Online Dating Opener that Got Jennifer’s Attention
:How Tony Escaped the Friend Zone on His First Date
:The First Date that Changed Everything
:Tony’s Take—the One Move Every Shy, Single Guy Should Make
TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: http://www.DatingTransformation.com
EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com
Episode Highlights:
:Why Tony Felt Women Didn’t Want Him
:The Self-Doubt Voice that Keeps Men Single—and How to Silence It
:Steal the “Time Traveler” Online Dating Opener that Got Jennifer’s Attention
:How Tony Escaped the Friend Zone on His First Date
:The First Date that Changed Everything
:Tony’s Take—the One Move Every Shy, Single Guy Should Make
TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: http://www.DatingTransformation.com
EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com