How to Stop Settling in Love: A Therapist Explains Why You Choose the Wrong Relationships (with Jason VanRuler)

from How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

by Connell Barrett

Published: Tue Aug 05 2025

Show Notes

Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally heal and move forward. You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.

Episode Highlights:

:The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals

:The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life

:How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”

:How to Enjoy the Process of Dating

:The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One

:Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women

TO DOWNLOAD JASON’S FREE ‘LIFE AUDIT’:
http://JasonVR.com

READ JASON’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘GET PAST YOUR PAST’:
Available on Amazon

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF DATING COACHING
IS RIGHT FOR YOU:
http://Datingtransformation.com